The vast majority of scholars of human behavior, and especially, the couple studies, we agree, is possible to build healthy couples, however, need to work on that. Couple’s relationship is a significant important to the vast majority of people, and therefore, we need to steer efforts to make more constructive than destructive reality. Among some of the points that would have to be taken into account are:-it is important not to lose the individuality, but that each of the members of the couple keep their own identity. It is also necessary to reaffirm the relationship as what is shared. However, the vast majority of couples become dependent and are blurred against their partners. -Avoid at all costs the sickly dependencies, aggressions and unnecessary violence not also claim possession and being in the relationship as a form of dependence and addiction. When you have the maturity nor the self-confidence and self-esteem for a relationship, then, we believe that we will die without this couple.
-the relationship has to give a balance and be in situations of equity in all aspects pertaining to the couple: money, love, opportunities, friends, etc. – communication, the expression of feelings, the project partner and the individual project must be open, honest and clear. Be in agreement that it is possible to express themselves without fear. -Are required to both participate in the link with the same capacity: solidarity, concern, demonstrations of love, growth and development. It seems an ideal, however, to the extent that we are aware of what we want in our relationship, that way is important, build the bond of the couple. In relations as the narcissistic, aggressive, pain-filled toxic and dependent relationships, they are a series of wounds and scars that need to go and discover both if we stayed in that relationship either if we decided to abandon it.
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